RD, thanks so much for your kind words. Your post made me cry a little. And Pink, thanks to you too - I'm always so pleased to hear from you. You are both very kind. Pink - I hope you and I aren't doing the pick me dance??

I do feel better today thanks - and gosh I've been busy. Danced last night which was fun, but a late night. Had the meeting today with Relate. They may be interested in setting up an infidelity support group. They were very positive and interested and said they would come back to me by the end of this month.

Then I went to book club, then volunteered at the bookstore. Thought I was in for a quiet evening, but Dad called and asked me to come over. One of Mum's carers has her S in hospital today and couldn't come tonight. Arrived to find a big problem on Dad's laptop - adware that was hard to remove (managed eventually after 2 hours.) Plus Mum wouldn't stand up so we could help her into bed for ages. Again, managed in the end, and finally home with a glass of wine!

Hope my lovely DB pals are all doing okay xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus