That's great you're making plans for yourself this week. I'm glad it has hit you that this is all about him and not about you. You didn't do anything wrong, it's just your h's childhood demons have come front and center to haunt him. I forgot to mention also, many mlcers wind up with some type of illness when they are in mlc, many with stomach ailments. My h had stomach problems and an infection on his leg when he first left. Their immune systems are weak. Your h's may very well be due to drinking or the stresses of what he is going through right now.
