Alpha, The good thing was, it was not a scream fest lol, i stated my anger flatly and with conviction that was it. I have moved past actually having those heated reactions. I do try and validate as much as i can. With this one i appologized and explain what i had done, maybe not a validation but i did acknowledge i was wrong for forgeting it in my bike. after i appologized i felt like she was projecting onto me. I just felt it needed to express open and honestly how that made me feel, and show her how it made me feel. things seem to be fine actually. She came over to grab more of her things to put into storage and she was nice. We actually smiled and sang along to some songs that i was listening to before i went on my run.
