Well Cath...ya know...it's perfectly alright for a little bird (YOU) to call your HUSBANDS doctor and tell him in CONFIDENCE that you are concerned about you husband's alcohol abuse and the effect it's having on his health and life in general...the doctor will appreciate the info...especially IF your H doesn't 'tell all' when he goes to see him.
And yes..the doctor after running tests will wonder if any of his health issues ARE in fact alcohol related. Not to mention that alcohol will show up in his urine so if they look for that (BAC = blood alcohol content)they'll know anyway.
Oh HE (your H) likes you plenty...HE just can't believe YOU could ever really like HIM. T2