Don't pay any attention to what he says about trying to figure out how to tell OW he's coming back to you, b/c he may be giving the OW the same BS. There have been men who would keep both women dangling while thinking he was trying to let go of the other one. Having sex with both women......well, why would he hurry to end that kind of setup?
Here is a quote from a few posts back, and this looks more promising than any of the other stuff.
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We for sure have switched roles of him looking confident and a man about town and me crying and hanging around. To now I'm walking round head held high and confident while he is looking sad and asking me questions like where am I going what am I doing.
This ^^ is exactly how you need to handle yourself!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
