Focused on Me and My Son 2

[Sherman333]

However in your case I would not prod an angry bear!

Very true...

So last night was her night with S7. I got home around 8:20 p.m. On her nights I'm away so she has to play Mom. S7 said he played video games all night. Mom read a book (wow... she never reads) and only texted once.

I had my lawyer ping her lawyer on getting a custody agreement in place. She didn't appreciate that as it cost her money. But reiterated that she's going to get her version of the entire agreement to her lawyer on Monday for review. So it looks like that's still her primary plan. I'm happy as it will address custody issues.

This morning had a couple of fun little interactions. I was working out with headphones on.

First interaction she was focused on what our S7 needed for snacks and breakfast. She wanted to confirm what he needed for today and should already know. She hasn't done this in over a week and had left it for me on the last several days. Just odd behavior. I went back to working out after giving her confirmation of her question.

2nd interaction, She asked me what I told the daycare where he's been at this week for spring break. I said nothing. She was a bit feisty and said they're looking at me funny. My response is "I have no clue. Maybe they saw I'm not wearing my ring?". I put my earphone in and went back to working out. She said some more stuff but I didn't hear the words.

3rd interaction... feistier yet. I haven't been buying the type of groceries she likes. She expected that I would keep catering to her as we go into the D process she wanted. Well, she bought eggs a day or so ago and has been eating them for breakfast and dinner (there's other food, but she'd have to cook it and can't bring herself to the task). She got my attention to tell me not to eat "her" eggs even though she's eaten other food I'd purchased (funny). That if I've "had enough money to take S7 to the water park, then I have enough "f-ing" money to buy my own G.. Damn eggs." My response... "I'm not going to eat your eggs". I put my headphone back in and returned to my workout and ignored her.

She was a lot louder, but with the music playing I have no idea what she said. It was background noise.

Once S7 was awake, it was all fake niceness.

She also said she wants to take one of the gaming systems for her new place. I texted her this morning and let her know that most of the content on it is tied to me and won't work. She then asked me to look and see how much it will cost and if I'd be willing to share the cost for a new system in her apt. My response... "Not sure. You'll have to look." and left it at that.

I'm surprised she even asked. It's her new place and she needs to get that on her own.