At this point, my action plan is to be cordial, polite but not to initiate conversation except about the kids correct?
I am to continue to GAL, keep a PMA and just move on with my life without her. I am trying to imagine that she died and this is how I would carry on.
I will let the L work out the details and not get involved in them, correct?
Just ensuring I am doing everything I can to keep playing by the DB rules. Of course I want results but realize I ma not get the results I want, but am taking the long view attitude. At this point, I do not like the person my WW is at all.
Yes, I am slowly remembering the bad times and good times in our marriage and try to keep a balanced view.
She called to speak to the kids last night and I heard her say I miss you so much when you are not with me. The thought went through my head, yes, perhaps you should have thought about that when you chose to leave our marriage and family. I did not say that out loud of course, but I certainly thought it.
