Confused and mix messages. Part 3

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((((Cherry)))) I'm sorry your R talk didn't go as you'd hoped. Good job on stating your boundaries. Keep backing them up with consistent action. Focus on yourself and let him go figure out his stuff. He'll either find his way out of the crisis or he won't. Not your problem.

Saw h briefly, I acted cool calm happy etc- confuse him a bit, he was friendly back just looks so unbelievably depressed.

He probably is somewhat depressed. Usually that plays a part in the crisis. It actually sounds like he feels guilty when he's home which actually is a good sign IMO. That says to me that if he figures out how to extract himself from the pull of OW, he'll probably be able to show remorse and that's important for the piecing process.

I'm gonna focus on me, my career, being a mom. He is more than welcome to be part of this life. If not. Oh baby, he will regret it and he knows it!!

That's the right attitude! You are doing great.