Yes Pilot, I see your point, but I have a little hope, we all do. I mention above that I have a new friend. We go out, have fun, and do adult things. Enjoying time together. I spend plenty of time with my friends. I work on my house. I never reach out to WAS. I follow our schedule for pick up and drop off. Seeing her only every other sunday is the extent of it, unless she reaches out. She ALWAYS sees me happy, house clean, looking fit, new clothes, smiling, and focusing solely on our son. She has gotten back to complementing me. In the beginning I feel it was to make me feel better about what happened. I did not really comment on it, nor welcome those comments. I built up so many boundaries. Thru therapy, I knew I needed to let those down a bit. To leave the door a little bit open for her. However, at the same time, moving on....dropping the rope, and sailing my ship back into the dating pool. Just dating, chatting with other single women and trying to "schedule" dates. Right now I have the one female friend, no labels, all up front on the no relationship thing. I am not ready and not being honest would be fair to no one.
Feel free to go back and read my other pages, it might explain my situation better.
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
