Hello Pyrite,

I think Heart14 has a good point about asking your wife for her help. Have you considered making a list of household chores? If you haven't done this, you might want to consider it.

I heard or read this somewhere...but I can't remember where.

Anyway, make a list of household chores,and then copy it. Both you and your wife should check the chores you would prefer or enjoy doing on your copy. When you compare your lists, if both you and your spouse have named the same chores, you can either take turns doing them, or divide them between the two of you. But you must approve each other's selections before they become your responsibilities.

What do you think?

Good luck!

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15