Hi Starsky,

I've told him. He definitely knows where I stand.

When we first met, we actually went to the Doctor together.

Our respective exes gave us both (non- life threatening) venereal parting gifts.

We've had terrible breakups.

Which is why I thought I had a real partner in crime in him.

He has been willing to talk to me about my feelings on seeing other people, but I think I have to let go of saving the marriage.

I am going to pool my (limited) resources, and try to get out of the apartment.

The pain is unbearable.

He's not interested in saving, or being married (to me anyway).

I would like a little "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind" please, and thank you!

W/41
H/42
Married: 2yrs 6months
Together: 11yrs
11/21/14 - Argument H didn't let go - stopped wearing his wedding band
1/23/15 - Asks for Divorce
0 - kids
2 dogs