" if you continually keep these thoughts in the back of your mind, resentment will come up in you and you'll still see yourself as being above her"
ok - i've omitted commenting on this. i can understand your advice here. but i really dont think I'm dwelling on this point at all. it is not something I expect her to even change. It would be nice if she was more mindful of it, but it is NOT a condition or anything.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015