I just reread my last post and saw it was not in English. I confronted my W about her affair yesterday afternoon. At that time she admitted everything.

Then she called me that evening and said she did not do anything. She only went to the hotel room with OM because he was afraid of me and she needed him to help her budget her finances for after the divorce. Keep in mind this was at 2 am.

Me: 36
W: 36
D: 14
T: 18 (05/1997)
M: 16 (05/1999)
BD: 7/23/15
Separation 01/2015
D mentioned and started 02/2015
D filed 3/2015
OM confirmed 3/30/15