I'm still here - sometimes I just find it hard to post on this site. I've been actively avoiding thinking or talking about my sitch. I think its likely a subconscious effort to pull myself out of depression, but it could possibly be that I'm still in some form of denial.
Life will go on, and you will be better for this experience... IF you want to be. Perhaps look at your situation as a Case Study. It is no longer you and her, but two people. Dissect the situation to learn as much as you can and I PROMISE it will be less like an emotional burden and more like a book you hard to read once.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015