I think I need to have a conversation with him. If he is still planning on moving forward with a D than maybe he just needs to do it. Why is he dragging this out. I don't get it. I am in need of physical affection and yes sex.
I know it is against DB to bring up R talk, but does anybody have any advice how to have that conversation should I decided too?
Lost - I've been hit or miss lately, but I have been thinking about you. I wish things were going better for your situation.
I'm going to be honest... I think you should talk to him, but I don't think you have able to talk to him rationally in a detached mode, which I think would be more effective (Obviously this is all just my thoughts). He holds the card, he knows that and you know that. He still holds the card b/c his actions have impact or your immediate state.
It might be time to come up with some questions you want to ask him, and talk them out on the board.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015