I think you are asking for your tender heart to get trampled on. WW is in an infatuation EA/PA an addiction to this scuzzy OM. Until she is free of it, you are dangling.
From your words I see you believe you are in competition with OM. You aren't WW is in with OM. Why lower your dignify to compete in a EA/PA which will eventually burn out. If you 'win' WW it is a shallow victory if your issues remain unresolved. Tlee work on you in this time and space available.
I like Ggs response, the analogy of the fire is weak and the little remaining kindling is already wet and unlikely to burn even if lit. You are assuming that you and OM are in control of this fire. This isn't the case, it's WW own fire to control not yours or OM. There is no 'we' to light the fire. WW is in a new grate with the good kindling and her addiction is burning the kindling, very fast and bright.
If WW wants back in to an R with you then it won't be through journal entries, as for me I would be concerned that OM may have access to this too and discuss it with WW. My H shared my texts with a POW which I considered a serious breach of confidentiality.
It is so tough TLee. I wish you to decide wisely
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Last edited by Vanilla; 04/09/1512:51 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
