Oh GG, your list is perfect. At the top of mine is communication and conflict resolution.

Yes, let's be pursued. And leave Ms. Fix it in duck tape.

Glad your hound is well.

And V - shout out to your grumpy stinky lamb in the garbage dump. LOL. I'm going to bed shortly and will have sweet dreams of such a creature.

Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.