So I am divorced.

[mahhhty]

Good Advice Lost. I know sometime it is hard to know how I really feel in the moment, and an issue I have is that my mouth speaks before I truly think. In bad situations I am learning to control it, but in easy situations I still speak first.

An example of this was the Saturday before Easter. The convo went something like this....

Her: Would you like me to drop of the kids or do you want to come to my parents to see all the kids, and to see what everyone got for easter.
Me: I guess, whatever is easiest.

I have to get better at that.

Then I thought about it, and I believed it was a bad idea, so I texted her asking to drop the kids off. She didn't respond. The lack of response frustrated me, but I let it go, as I was going kayaking anyway. On the way home from kayaking and about an 1 hour before pick up. I wrote another text stating I would pick them up. I did this b/c I had absolutely no idea where she stood on the matter and b/c I was running late. Unfortunately, it was wishy washy but in the end all was fine.