Confused and mix messages. Part 3

[Zues126]

This post will not be helpful in any way because I'm just pouring gas on a fire, but after reading these threads I am just so tired of these home-wreckers. Do these people think they're being nice to "comfort" someone that is going through such a hard time? Does it make them feel important? Are they feeding on some sense of being needed? Or do they think it's not making a negative impact? Or that they can help save the person somehow? Or are they trying to cut in? WT_?

I get that the WAS is in a fog, but why are these people getting in the middle?

I'll tell you, I had a co-worker I was friends with for years that told me that he was involved with a M woman. I gave him a come to jesus meeting like he's never heard before and ended my friendship with him. I literally showed him these forums and talked about how he what he was doing was destroying real lives. Spin it how you want, but it's more despicable than anything. I'd rather a drug dealer give my kid his first shot of heroin.

OK, just had to vent a little. Sorry Cherry. Stay strong and walk tall. Oh, and one R talk won't make or break anything. I think it was important actually so you could restate your boundaries. You gave him a taste of what he'll be missing, that was important too. Couldn't have planned it better. Now detach, GAL, and be the awesome woman you seem to be. And keep posting!