I'm not sure on what you should do re the journal.

My thoughts and they do come form the perspective that proximity has nothing to do with feelings.

Is that she is wanting you to participate in something that keeps you and her connected emotionally on some level and if I was your new wife it would make me personally in comfortable for that reason.

Why does she need to know how you are feeling?
She's done right?
She's not interested in t any more. I forget if you have children but even if so why do you need a close emotional tie with a woman who doesn't want a r is in active a with an om?

Me personally I see it as her temping you to see if your still waiting thus giving her support via emaontal needs the om is not meeting.

The om is not what you think, especially if she needs and online journal from you.

Did you set a personal boundary of nc while she is with om?

Someone else might have differencing views.

Last edited by Ggrass; 04/09/15 12:03 AM.
M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26