BW911,

My wife and I have been separated for 5 months--she filed for divorce the day after she left. As far as I know, there is no OM. I would be devastated, too.

As Rick1963 said, "She only cares about her."

Please, don't give up. This is going to take some time to play itself out.

I'll add you to my prayer list tonight!

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15