Confused and mix messages. Part 3

[Cherry]

Ugh we talked. He was honest and admitted he had seen the OW. He made out that he is in a hole and doesn't know what to do how to get out. I was annoyed he even discussed it with her- she has no right to be part of this- especially when about a month ago she claimed she didn't know about the marriage and was gonna stay away from him (naive to believe that I know). I did remain calm and poised throughout- even though he was basically trying to deny the things he said the other day. Like how he said he was thinking of telling her he was committing to the m. I thought seems as he appears to be cake eating, it was the perfect time to lay boundaries- I will not remain living with him if he goes ahead with d (his plan). I also will remain friendly for the sake of our child- we will not be friends (another of his plans some best buddy hanging out thing). I feel he knows where I stand.
I've made all this clear the past few days, as well as I want to work on the m- but I know I will be fine if not.
I am majorly pissed- I thought I'd go to my room and cry, I don't feel like wasting tears. I'm just angry.
So back to the plan. I won't have another of these discussions with him. I'll continue to be detached but appear friendly and contented in my own little bubble. Annoys me he talks to her more though about our m.. I do bet he missed the sex out though..
I feel I have backslid.. And I questioned him about ow. Ugh