And yes, I am getting off the comforting train, was kind of easing out of it (since 04/05), just not going to do it anymore now. Sometimes she just seems like she needs to go to a psych ward - actually suggested by my friend yesterday as well. She has mentioned the death thing in the past, and she acted on it to a degree, and that is my only true concern at the moment. Just need to let her figure everything out for herself. Keep myself happy.