random question.....

If your wife makes most of the money (you said you didn't work much right?) Then why didn't she stay in the house with the kids, refinance to make the payments lower and buy you out?

I might not be thinking/understanding things clearly but why did both of you leave a house that you own (not rental)?


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction