I can relate to so, so much. You wouldn't have married him if you didn't feel he was a good man.
Glad to hear that you are out GALing, or getting ready to make it serious!
I'm also in the maybe he comes around, maybe he doesn't boat (though I don't think I am actively looking to reconcile anymore). Congrats on your detachment. And wisdom in knowing you need to get back to you, too.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
