Hi Eirinn! I think contacting him about supper was ok. Although next time I wouldn't ask his permission. Just tell him you need to eat early and leave for a meeting. Asking if it's ok gives off the vibe that you need his approval and you don't.
Me: 30 H: 35 M: 5 years S2 Signs of MLC started Feb 2014 BD - PA July 2014 Piecing/reconciling late July 2014