Confused and mix messages. Part 3

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Cherry, sounds like you have the right mindset. I'm impressed with how strong you sound. Keep it up!

There are some positives in your sitch and it's easy to let those lead to expectations. I'd definitely caution you to try and limit those at this point. Like Toots said, usually the turnaround isn't quite that quick. You'll likely ebb and flow for awhile.

Cherry, it does not surprise me that after having a really good day with you, he was a bit more withdrawn the next day. I think they almost panic when they've had a good time with us because they are afraid that that means that our hopes are up, or expectations or something.

I think what Eirinn said is often true. A lot of them feel guilty and think they are leading us on because they truly don't know what they want.

Cherry, you seem like a very strong woman. I have no doubt you'll pull through this and live a happy life no matter the eventual outcome of your M.