There's no need to tell your W that you are consulting with L's, but I think you should go for a couple of free consultations, just to get yourself to a point where you know how you want to propose doing things in respect of the house. Just tell her you're considering it and will come back to her after the weekend, then get on the phone pronto!

No-one on the site can really help you much with the best course of action to protect yourself and the kids. Our financial and marital circumstances vary so much, you really need an expert who knows your affairs and can give qualified advice.

Best of luck Alpha - got to dash, I'm off dancing now! :-)

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

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