Here's a link to what I posted after L appt on 25.2.

In my threads following that will be some interaction with H..

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2545660&page=3

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus