It's not that your H is stupid or stubborn: if he sent you quotes and articles and books on how to be happy after D, you'd be just as closed off and probably offended. How about this: "D is like being born again; a second chance to grow and become your own person" Did it feel good? Well, he feels the same about "D is not the solution" kind of quotes. Emotionally, he's not open to any of this and none of these quotes would seem very insightful to him.
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M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
