Beautifully put, Cathy. You love your H. You don't need to defend your actions or emotions to anyone.
Only you can decide what part you will play in this scenario. Nobody has a right to tell you what to do or judge you for the decisions you make. You have a very tough situation. You have wonderful insight in to H's problem.
Cathy, what would you have done if H would have left last night? Obviously he was very drunk. Would you have let him drive away? Would you have called the police to keep him off the streets?
I know you have concerns for your son. What have you told him? Yes, he is young, but he knows something isn't right with dad when he comes home drunk. He is too young to understand what is going on, but he has emotions about dad's behaviour. Do you think he told dad to leave b/c he was afraid?
You do have alot to deal with. Keep praying and we'll pray with you.
Pattie
When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.
