Alpha, you co own the house, so this proceeds at a pace and in a way that you are comfortable with, okay?
Have you seen a L yet? I can't recall. But they are likely to advise that you only sell the house as part of a full financial settlement. Jim and his W did this, and it is what I am hoping to do with my H - ie: formalise the separation.
Don't be pressured into doing anything until you are comfortable. If needs be, just let your W know you are thinking about it and will get back to her in a few days.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
