Hi Deb,

I don't want to kick him out. I have to worry about S4 though, he is my main concern.

H is not physically abusive, just a stupid drunk'n fool.

H called me a little bit ago and told me how sick he was...I said well you should be. I asked him if he was done with work early? H said no. I said were you slamming them? H said yeah.

I have a sitter for tonight so that H and I could go out to eat and watch the basketball game. H said he wasn't doing anything with me!! That he needed to spend a night at home. I said we'll just go for the game and sandwich and come home. I already have the sitter lined up and S knows she's coming and I'm not going to cancel. H sounded much more agreeable after that. S4 loves his sitters!! So we are going to dinner and to watch the BB game tonight. We also talked about the games and who we picked, etc. I didn't think this morning right away would be the time to get into his behavior from last night.

I need to address the issue of H's interaction with S4 last night.

Cathy