See there was a slight difference in thinking of each man but they produced the smae results.

Xh1 he had hit from anger.

Xh2 well he punished animals by " giving disapline via a flogging when needed" his thought was it was the animals fault for not complying to the rules.

But see how that reflected on to me, I was punished because i didn't comply and didn't accept blame and punishments for my failings. Like the horse kicking him my training was faulty not my xh2.

See my thought process. The animal treatment was always there, the punishments of me took longer but given xh2 thought process it was given.

M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26