Hurt, I'm not up to date on your sitch - but have you seen a L already? If not, I would consult with one asap. I'm afraid I don't know how things like this work, but I hope you manage to agree an arrangement that is in the best interests of you all.
((Hurt))
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus