After my text above, W replied: ' Yeah just wondering how the kids have been and what time your dropping them off?'

I replied: 'Kids have been great and had a fantastic day. The weather has been lovely. I'll drop them off at 9am'

I tried to gauge the reply to vaguely inform of their day (without spilling the beans), make a positive comment, and confirm child arrangements. I didnt ask a question so as not to appear to pursue, and tried to strike a balance between being nice but mysterious, slightly distant without being cold.

I remember a time when text messages were just text messages haha

Taking the kids back soon. YouTube history shows W has been looking at cars in the middle of the night. Since she has no interest in cars I can only assume it's OM related. At this point that shouldn't bother me but it does still...though not to the same degree as before.

I'm going to be upbeat and positive upon seeing her, be neighbourly friendly without over doing it, and try and make a positive connection, even if it is on something small.


BD - 30TH JAN 2015
S - 30TH JAN 2015
PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014)
CONTINUAL TALK OF D
ME: 31
W: 28
T: 10yrs
M: 4.5yrs
D:5, S:6