I'm not calling you nuts! Not even close. Loving someone who is battling a disease is not an easy path. There seem to be so many times where we lose sight of our own boundaries just to keep things on an even keel...
I wish I didn't have any experience on this path to share...
I'll keep you guys in my prayers. Hopefully, your H will decide that living like this cannot go on one minute more and commit himself to doing the work he will need to do to get healthy. I will pray for that outcome.
My brother is probably a case for St. Jude, but I still pray that he decides his life is worth living clean as well. It's not my job to give up on him. But I have elected to remove myself from his daily drama and his tendency to suck the family into it.
Hugs,
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."