Continuing DBing

[PeterV2]

She says the A is over. She insists it is.
She says that she needs time to work on herself.
She says she feels she lost her independence with me and she's looking to regain that. She's taking steps to do that - seeing old friends again (women) and doing her own thing. I don't feel that she's spending any time with OM - zero. I don't even think she's in contact with him.

However she doesn't want me looking at her phone. Maybe she's exchanging texts with OM. Maybe she's exchanging texts with girlfriends that deal with our difficulties and she doesn't want me to see her convos with them. Hard to say. I need to somehow get her passcode to open her phone and look while she sleeps.

She's cooking me great meals and we're spending a lot of quality time together. We're living under the same roof but I sleep in the spare room. She doesn't want to sleep with me yet.

I'm not pursuing. I'm just carrying on my life. She's the one who always calls me and texts me and asks me where I am. I'm just waiting until after D28 gets married in July. Then I'll deliver my message: R or go.