Don't have much in me tonight for wisdom. I'll send you some good will. One day at a time.

For what it's worth, my mantra is to "act with the character you wish he had".

If you allow your feelings to cause you to throw in the towel, you have no right to be upset for him to allow his feelings to cause him to do the same. (kind of- you know what I mean).

So I'd say if you believe that people are supposed to stick by their vows regardless of how they FEEL (which I do), then that's what you should do. Doesn't mean it's not ok to FEEL like punching him in the face now and then. But follow your beliefs and have faith.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15