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And you love someone so much you're willing to watch him self destruct while keeping him in your daily life.



hmmm....is this a good thing? or am I nuts?

I don't know what Al-Anon can offer. I know H has a problem, I think H knows he has a problem. It's just dawning on me, looking back over the last couple of weeks, that H no longer comes right out and say where he's going/stopping anymore..like he's afraid to tell me/embarrased that he's stopping to drink or he's at the bar. I know and he knows where he's going, but he hasn't been saying it the last few times he has stopped nor will he tell me where he was if I do ask...so is this a babystep on H's part, maybe H is realizing his drinking problem is real and out of control.

Cathy