You got me thinking about this. Because in essence I look at it as a microcosm of the whole sitch. I guess I see that the things I'm doing is because I think it's the better, more logical, economical, whatever thing to do. At that point, I stuggle leaving WW be accountable for her own decisions, instead trying to continue to give her 'chances' to make it right (at least right in my Point of View) to compound this, if I use the fact that she told me that she saw me as a 'father' or 'boss' this would be be another example that I pushed my point and tried to convince her she was doing the wrong thing.
I guess your right, she said she didn't want to go, I should have just accepted that and did what was best for me. It's tough, because I don't see any of this as ill-willed or malicious at all, but I guess from a different perspective it would be annoying that I kept give her chances. I guess my MNG was trying to allow her to reconsider in order to try and avoid future conflicts (like when she realizes that this was not the best approach) Im going to the IC tomorrow and I'll see what she has to say.
Thanks for your perspective.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
