Hi Betsey,

I've heard good things and bad things about Al-Anon so am nervous about attending. There are a number of meetings all over this city, too. Even my doctor said something like "they'll tell you to kick him out and you're probably not ready for that?" so..

H was out last night, got home about 11ish, jumped in the shower and then came to bed. Was up before 5 am and left for his job shortly after he was up. I know how long it takes him to get to his jobsite so unless he started early today he was sitting around for awhile before he started.

H called me about mid-morning. I answered the phone and said "hello" there was a lag and then a very unemotional/dead sounding voice of my H saying Hello back. I asked him if he had been out drinking green beer last night and he said no. Korbel and Coke. We chatted briefly and H said he had to go.

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I also think you have so much to offer those who haven't come as far on the journey as you obviously have.




I don't have a way with words like so many other well respected DBers do, thus my hesitation to post to others. Although I do have days when I can be very articulate. For the most part have trouble putting thoughts to words.

My little guy gets up this morning and comes running out to me for a big hug and an I luv you momma and a kiss. He is sunshine in my life. And there are the days when he won't listen, won't do what I tell him to do, throws his toys, takes something he isn't supposed to have and the chase is on...we usually end up on the floor laughing..that's why he's not afraid of me!!

Cathy