Yes I've read DR and all the links are great and very insightful just confused in my next step , I won't leave until she ask it's her house do I guess first step is stop running errands and doing husband stuff like sandy says, I guess I haven't totally stopped pursuing I just stopped smothering and forcing serious talks about the relationship no I love yous but haven't made her really feel like she's lost me ? And truly I'm scared that's what she wants
