Thanks job.

I have written a response to my admirer,I have tried to be tactful. I have not sent it yet, I can't bring myself to - it's not what I expected to have to write to anyone!

Other news - carpet is drying out, smells a bit so will have to treat it with a deodoriser.

Spoke to s21 today, he said everything is much better between him and h, they have been doing more stuff together and a few days ago they went to the car auctions and got s21 a car. Sounds like h may have actually listened to me wow. S21 also said things better in the house now, thinks his d has talked to ow about backing off. So all quiet in their corner again.... for now lol.

S18 has talked about leaving college, says it's boring and he is not learning anything - this is typical of him. I have said he can leave if he finds full time work (which is not easy here so am hoping that will stem the leaving college for a while) it's a tactical game!!