Thanks Roid I will be happy to lend any advice. I will say though, at least for me, it's always been about no contact. Since the day she moved out I initiated contact maybe 3 times out of necessity. Other than that I don't call,text, or anything. I just wiped her out. If she wants to talk...she can contact me...I won't do it and I refuse to. So really its been all about no contact with me that's got me through. Every day that passes that you don't contact makes you feel empowered.

Give her what she wants...a life without me means JUST that...a life without me. Hasta levista. It hurts like hell but it not only empowers you...but it causes you to move on. That's really the best advice I can give...no contact at all. Be happy and confident...even if you're not...basically fake it until you make it.

ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14