I hear ya! I never thought I had a these things going on till i started seeing myself in all these books. Never thought of myself as codependent! The more I think lately, if I would have read these books along time ago, I would be in a much better mental and FINANCIAL position now.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"