Just exchanged the money split. Thought I could control my emotions but not all the way. Found out her plans. She's going against her whole family and friends. Her and OM are getting a house together. Let some anger out but probably shouldn't have. Told her that I was sorry for her because of all the pain he has caused her and this is the direction she is choosing. Also that I won't be there for her anymore. Talked a little bit about the divorce. How it all can be handled. She told me that he would be starting to go to the oldest games and such. I asked her to hold off on that out of resepect for me until the divorce is final. They are getting a house a couple of blocks away from me. I told her not so much nice things about OM that I shouldn't have(made me look weak). Just a terrible convo. I'm not happy right now!
Looks like it's all out of my hands. Throwing in the towel!
Peace out 3kids
M36/W30 S13,D10,S6 Married 4.5 together 12 Bomb 1/14 EA/PA OM 1/14 still going Served 2/14/14 Separated 3/14 D paused 6/14 6/15 divorced