Focused on Me and My Son 2

[Sherman333]

However, if you contact the employer, are you not being vindictive or petty? What purpose would it serve, other than going nuclear and "paying her back"?

Short answer is yes. It would actually be paying OM back more than her in a lot of ways. But they could both loose their jobs as a result as its a clear violation of the company code of conduct. I'm wrestling with this a bit and the OM knows this... he's the head of their HR department. So he's very unsettled at the moment... maybe just a bit of cold water.

My BIL is wants to make sure that the letter is sent. He has some very firm views of this type of thing (in the military and they don't pull any punches with this cr@p).

Nothing has to happen right away. But the Attorney has sent them before... says the timing has to be correct.

Strangely enough, when she described the OM, she said his personality is like me, his mannerisms is like me, he looks a little like me... I don't get it. :P

I just think she's a selfish a$$ on top of everything else at this point. And that everything she does seems to be to extract the biggest emotional reaction possible.