Quote: Just be careful not to get too caught up in what he is doing, thinking, saying. You need to be putting some of that time & energy into Cathy. I have a friend who says we are like a big pitcher of Kool-Aid ... pouring out what we have to others... and if we don't remember to make more for the pitcher, soon it is enpty and we have nothing to give... and if we water it down because we're too busy to make the real stuff, then we're giving out watered down "us". I liked her analogy even though I'd be hard pressed to drink Kool Aid myself... take care of yourself.
This is so cute, I love it!LOL
Cathy, hon, this IS you! You need to let H take care of HIS drama and you take care of Cathy and your son. Hope you went ahead and finished that meal. You MUST show your H that no matter what you are moving forward. This is not a time to be a wet noodle! Stand up and show him you are proud of you! You almost sound like a depressed wet towel. Don't let this get you down and don't react to his crap!
