If you have to do more of the lifting, one to Tango. Bite the bullet and do it.
In several years time what will matter is your fin security. Cards to your chest, do what needs to be done.
At the end you can laugh until you pee yourself. You will have a house, the one you wanted, free and clear. For you and any children you have (your own, fostered or adopted).
Go for it gf. Focus on the end result and concentrate on the goal of fin security. Your H is only thinking short term fin, you have a longer perspective.
Text to H:
H I apologise I lost my rag, back in control, let's press on with this. Z
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 04/07/1505:30 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW